Jealousy. Envy. Covetousness.
Not words to describe emotions I'm used to.
Is it possible to not be jealous about someone's happiness, when you desire the same?
Is it possible to not envy someone's situation, but admire it fully?.
Is it possible to understand reality, accept it, and have covetousness not be present?
The simple answer is yes, but isn't happiness for ourselves born out of us having something we feel others do not? It's not to say we can't all share similar situations, successes, and dreams, but are they really the same? No one person can have the exact job, exact marriage, exact kids, or exact life of another, so isn't impossible to fully appreciate another's life, even if it's simply the newness of it?
Are we not more critical of those we care about if we truly care? Do we not want more for them than they expect for themselves? What if we admire two things, knowing one is impossible, one is probable, and the paradox of their existence is merely the battle between happiness for others and envy? Does that make us bad people? Is it wrong to want a job, knowing someone else's dreams will be crushed, but knowing full well, should they be awarded it, you'll be happy? Is it wrong to want love, but be happy if those you wish loved you back, love another? Is envy tied into the actual desire to have what others have or simply to have that feeling of accomplishment?
Why do we care so much about others, as it pertains to us, when we have everything or when we have nothing? Maybe, at the end of the day, what I personally envy is the ability of others to have choices, time to make mistakes that don't matter, and the future. A much longer future than I have. Is that really jealousy, envy, or covetousness or is it something much deeper?
Not words to describe emotions I'm used to.
Is it possible to not be jealous about someone's happiness, when you desire the same?
Is it possible to not envy someone's situation, but admire it fully?.
Is it possible to understand reality, accept it, and have covetousness not be present?
The simple answer is yes, but isn't happiness for ourselves born out of us having something we feel others do not? It's not to say we can't all share similar situations, successes, and dreams, but are they really the same? No one person can have the exact job, exact marriage, exact kids, or exact life of another, so isn't impossible to fully appreciate another's life, even if it's simply the newness of it?
Are we not more critical of those we care about if we truly care? Do we not want more for them than they expect for themselves? What if we admire two things, knowing one is impossible, one is probable, and the paradox of their existence is merely the battle between happiness for others and envy? Does that make us bad people? Is it wrong to want a job, knowing someone else's dreams will be crushed, but knowing full well, should they be awarded it, you'll be happy? Is it wrong to want love, but be happy if those you wish loved you back, love another? Is envy tied into the actual desire to have what others have or simply to have that feeling of accomplishment?
Why do we care so much about others, as it pertains to us, when we have everything or when we have nothing? Maybe, at the end of the day, what I personally envy is the ability of others to have choices, time to make mistakes that don't matter, and the future. A much longer future than I have. Is that really jealousy, envy, or covetousness or is it something much deeper?
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