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Free Writing February: Take 7

Why do we have rules?
Why do people post, even make others commit to obeying if they will never enforce them?
Why do we set a higher standard to those who don't break rules, but a lesser standard to those who refuse or aren't smart enough to comply?
Are rules, in their truest sense, a form of comfort or cowardice? Do those who make rules do it to convey power or to boost their ego. I am not talking about laws, but simply rules. I am not a disciplinarian in any form, but I command respect. Notice I did not write "demand," as who am I to force my will upon another. I gain respect by showing respect to those who the situation would imply I am superior. I do not ever want another human being to think I want to wield power over them and I am disgusted by those whose egos are so fragile., or they are simply afraid of any type of confrontation, to think (keyword: think) they wield power over me.

Again, why do we have rules? Is it that people, who through their own words and…
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Free Writing February: Take 4

Jealousy. Envy. Covetousness.
Not words to describe emotions I'm used to.
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Is it possible to not envy someone's situation, but admire it fully?.
Is it possible to understand reality, accept it, and have covetousness not be present?

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Free Writing February: Take 3

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Free Writing February: Take 2

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Free Writing February: Take 1

Being a chameleon isn't always easy, or fun. Sometimes I forget what form I've taken.
Money. Those who don't care about it can be overwhelmed when it comes their way.
Mi Casa, Su Casa, but if you don't have respect for yourself, get out.
Things would be different if we were all born at the same time.
48 years and I'm still a stranger, an outsider, an "other."
Dirty dishes left in the sink. Misspellings. Bless you.
I'm vegan and I appreciate you trying. Sincerely!
Age creeps up on you. Sometimes you forget.
Smiles. Jokes. Laughter. People are hurting.
There is nothing random about bragging.
Play All I Want For Christmas. OK!
Who I am is not who I am.  Tiny Cabin.