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Serious Reflection: A Strange Few Days.

Funny how the people most concerned with their shoes, aren't willing to walk in other's.
Doing laundry is something I feel the need to complain about, but I actually find it quite relaxing.
I had the least amount of fun one night out that I have had in a long time.  Made me really question things.
I had the most amount of fun I've had in one night, two nights later.  Made me question things even more.
Funny who you miss, when you always see them, then you don't for a bit.
Funnier, is who you don't, under the same circumstances.
I've noticed that the more open I am about my feelings, the more people criticize me for them.
I think that most people believe those we know are generally intelligent, but it's a huge misconception.
I wrote a Facebook status about ignorance being bliss and truthfully, nobody who commented, got it.
Physical pain, regardless of location, makes day to day tasks almost impossible.
Shame manifests shame and truly makes me understand how it can lead to depression.
Making a kid laugh after he hurts or embarrasses himself is the most simple pleasure I experience weekly.
People call me judgmental because I judge their opinions and respond by judging a life they don't know.
Young children think so much more clearly than adults and don't have to hide behind social pleasantries.
It's funny how those few of us who are always there for others are chastised when we can't be.
Procrastination is always deemed a negative, but those who do without thinking, rarely produce much.
Everyone these days is so concerned with bettering their appearance, but so few work on their minds.
I have friends who have done wondrous things for others recently and I'm proud we're friends.
Funny how those who have skated by with the help of others are always looking for a pat on the back.
Is it a reflection on me or society that my most trusted friends seem to change yearly?
One thing about being open in all facets of life, is knowledge of what people really think of you.
Prejudice is so widely accepted in our society, that those who are seem unaware at their own.
If I was younger or older, I know who I'd want to be with.  Where I am now, I am clueless.
For the first time in a long time, I can't wait for Christmas day. Family means more than ever to me.








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